When we travel, we pack with intention.
We consider the destination. The climate. The version of ourselves we want to show up as.

A parka doesn’t belong in Hawaii.

And yet…

In our lives, we carry everything only adding more as time goes on.

Old disappointments.
Outdated rules.
Protective patterns that once kept us safe.
Beliefs formed in boardrooms we no longer sit in.

We drag them into new seasons and wonder why they feel heavy.

The experiences that shaped you matter. They built your resilience. They sharpened your instincts. They helped you succeed.

But they are not all meant to travel with you forever.

When was the last time you emptied the suitcase?
When did you intentionally decide what still serves you — today?

Because here’s the truth:
The lens you carry becomes the world you see.
And people respond to the version of you that you present. They learn the rules of engagement from what you tolerate, what you expect, and what you embody.

You are writing the rules.

What protected you twenty years ago may now be limiting you.
What once drove your success may now be capping your growth.

You are not required to keep carrying it.

As Benjamin Hardy writes in Personality isn’t Permanent. “People use the past as the excuse to remain stuck in habits and attitudes that keep them from growing.”

This is your moment to reduce the load.
To adjust the narrative.
To release what no longer fits.

Unpack.
Be honest.
​Repack with intention.

My Challenge to you:

• Create clarity as to who you are choosing to become. What are you ready to shed and what is your vision for your future self?
• Be disciplined with your vocabulary. Words confirm your reality.
  • Catch yourself and reframe as you create a narrative that doesn’t serve you. Be gentle, but unapologetic.
• Surround yourself with others who bring your strength and possibility.
• Create awareness of our self-limiting beliefs. In search of safety, we will limit possibilities.
• Lean into the fear and believe in your worth.