Proximity changes perspective. I used to love the show Undercover Boss. The CEOs would disguise themselves as a new employee and quietly discover the subtle mishaps, missed opportunities, and underutilized superstars hidden inside their own organization. It was a lesson in humility and an opportunity to set hierarchy aside in pursuit of excellence. Recently, “Operation Hard Hat” took New York by storm. Police officers disguised themselves as road workers to experience firsthand the dangers...
11 days ago • 1 min read
You Become What You Repeatedly Reinforce I was having a conversation with ChatGPT and this sentence intrigued me:: “Humans tend to repeatedly reference whatever sits at the center of their internal operating system. For some people, that’s achievement, trauma, politics, self-improvement, money, relationships, or spirituality.” It got me thinking… What sits at the center of your internal operating system and how is that impacting your reality? Are you even aware of the filter through which you...
19 days ago • 1 min read
Accountability: An Art Worth Mastering In my work with leaders, few challenges are more persistent than mastering accountability. Regardless of position, title, or age, the struggle is evident. It is human nature to seek peace and avoid “rocking the boat” (one of my least favorite phrases). Yet, the ripple effect of avoiding direct and honest feedback is detrimental to both personal and organizational success. I have only had to fire one person in my career, and surprisingly, it went very...
25 days ago • 1 min read
The Fear Within Great Leadership Your’e in the ocean, feet in the sand and in the next second the ground disappears beneath you with the incoming wave. Disconcerting.Stable one moment, uncertain the next. Leadership can feel much the same way. You have done the work.Clear communication.Strategic thinking.Accountability. And it is working! The team is collaborating.Communication is improving.Trust is building. Yet somewhere in the back of your mind, the question lingers: “When is the shoe...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Money’s Tight? Cut Leadership. When organizations cut leadership development to survive today, they often sacrifice the very leaders and innovators required to help them thrive tomorrow. It’s a popular move. When money is tight, the first things to go are coaching, mentoring, skill building, and training. Cut the “extras” and focus only on immediate results. Shortsighted, to say the least. What often follows is short-term relief paired with long-term instability. Negativity goes unchecked....
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
960 Years of Leadership… Thrown Across a Room You never know what will resonate.What sparks connection.What shifts someone’s leadership in a single moment. What lands for one person may miss another entirely. And in that, there is risk. We can walk past insights that might change how we lead simply because they were not ours in that moment. That is why sharing matters. Wisdom does not compound when it is held. It grows when it is passed. I was recently invited to speak to about eighty...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
As you may have gathered, I love animals.Many do. But have you noticed… our compassion and focus has a size limit? We protect horses.We revere dogs.But the smaller things get… the easier it is to dismiss.To ignore.To step on. Somewhere along the way, we decided small meant unworthy. That thinking doesn’t just show up in nature.It shows up in leadership. The big things?Deadlines. Deliverables. Presentations.Those are easy. But the real work lives elsewhere. In the pause before you respond.In...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
He Wasn’t Being Rude. He Was Conditioned. When my husband and I first started dating, he was different. At his core, he’s the same person.But what he showed the world? Measured. Guarded. I remember thinking,“I wish people could see the side of you that I get to see.” There was a gap between who he was and how he showed up.Not intentional. Learned. Perfected. He’s a surgeon.Precision. Control. Authority. Somewhere along the way, he internalized a belief:You can be professional, or you can be...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
The Uncomfortable Truth About The Younger Generation I have heard it so many times. Complaints about the “younger generation.” “They don’t work as hard as we did.” “They are unmotivated.” “They have no self control.” The list goes on and on… But here is the thing… we can’t disregard this generation, we need them to continue our legacy. So how do we partner with them and harness their inherent genius? How do we understand what unlocks their potential and motivates brilliance? Coaching for...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read