How to Make New Habits Stick Some people wonder what it’s like having a coach, so I thought I would give you a behind-the-scenes look. Many think of coaching as solving problems, developing skills, or navigating challenges. While that's certainly part of the process, some of the most meaningful work happens after progress has already been made. Recently, I was working with a client who realized that constantly reacting to misalignment, mistakes, and imperfections was creating stress for him...
22 days ago • 3 min read
Pressure Builds Strength My latest book: Think Like a Monk Stay with me. This book was recommended to me and honestly, I cannot put it down. Jay Shetty does a phenomenal job integrating insights from his years as a monk into the world most of us actually live in. Shetty articulates concepts like fear, judgment, and values in such a beautiful way that you naturally begin contemplating and rethinking your own internal narrative. There are numerous powerful concepts, but one I will share today...
29 days ago • 1 min read
Proximity changes perspective. I used to love the show Undercover Boss. The CEOs would disguise themselves as a new employee and quietly discover the subtle mishaps, missed opportunities, and underutilized superstars hidden inside their own organization. It was a lesson in humility and an opportunity to set hierarchy aside in pursuit of excellence. Recently, “Operation Hard Hat” took New York by storm. Police officers disguised themselves as road workers to experience firsthand the dangers...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
You Become What You Repeatedly Reinforce I was having a conversation with ChatGPT and this sentence intrigued me:: “Humans tend to repeatedly reference whatever sits at the center of their internal operating system. For some people, that’s achievement, trauma, politics, self-improvement, money, relationships, or spirituality.” It got me thinking… What sits at the center of your internal operating system and how is that impacting your reality? Are you even aware of the filter through which you...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Accountability: An Art Worth Mastering In my work with leaders, few challenges are more persistent than mastering accountability. Regardless of position, title, or age, the struggle is evident. It is human nature to seek peace and avoid “rocking the boat” (one of my least favorite phrases). Yet, the ripple effect of avoiding direct and honest feedback is detrimental to both personal and organizational success. I have only had to fire one person in my career, and surprisingly, it went very...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
The Fear Within Great Leadership Your’e in the ocean, feet in the sand and in the next second the ground disappears beneath you with the incoming wave. Disconcerting.Stable one moment, uncertain the next. Leadership can feel much the same way. You have done the work.Clear communication.Strategic thinking.Accountability. And it is working! The team is collaborating.Communication is improving.Trust is building. Yet somewhere in the back of your mind, the question lingers: “When is the shoe...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Money’s Tight? Cut Leadership. When organizations cut leadership development to survive today, they often sacrifice the very leaders and innovators required to help them thrive tomorrow. It’s a popular move. When money is tight, the first things to go are coaching, mentoring, skill building, and training. Cut the “extras” and focus only on immediate results. Shortsighted, to say the least. What often follows is short-term relief paired with long-term instability. Negativity goes unchecked....
2 months ago • 1 min read
960 Years of Leadership… Thrown Across a Room You never know what will resonate.What sparks connection.What shifts someone’s leadership in a single moment. What lands for one person may miss another entirely. And in that, there is risk. We can walk past insights that might change how we lead simply because they were not ours in that moment. That is why sharing matters. Wisdom does not compound when it is held. It grows when it is passed. I was recently invited to speak to about eighty...
2 months ago • 1 min read
As you may have gathered, I love animals.Many do. But have you noticed… our compassion and focus has a size limit? We protect horses.We revere dogs.But the smaller things get… the easier it is to dismiss.To ignore.To step on. Somewhere along the way, we decided small meant unworthy. That thinking doesn’t just show up in nature.It shows up in leadership. The big things?Deadlines. Deliverables. Presentations.Those are easy. But the real work lives elsewhere. In the pause before you respond.In...
3 months ago • 1 min read